The Lust List, Winter 2014 Edition

After a long, difficult year, we find ourselves here again in December.

It’s the holiday season, and so I want to give all of my fellow BBW lovers/aficionados a gift:

It’s time for the latest iteration of the Lust List.

What is the lust list, you may ask? I am glad to tell you.

In fact, I will quote myself from last year in italics. My comments from this year are in parentheses:

“[T}he compendium of women that, if I can be frank, make me light in the big head and heavy in the small one. Women that get the blood flowing south of the border. Women that I wouldn’t kick out of bed for eating crackers.

(Women that I wouldn’t kick out of bed for eating anything, now that I think about it.)

Okay, fine: Women in the adult industry that I would like to fuck. There. I said it bluntly and crassly.

(You’re welcome.)

The main rule (which I reserve the right to break) is that there is a one-time appearance limit, although it does not necessarily mean that my lust for previous women has abated.

(I put that in because, let’s face it, there’s a couple for sure that would never leave the list, and that isn’t fair to the newcomers. Maybe I’ll do a personal hall of fame at some point.)

It’s a dirty dozen this year, with twelve lucky ladies making the cut for this appearance. Some are newbies, some are veterans, but they are all top notch in my book. And on my screens. And in my dreams.

I need a towel.

And remember: The order is not by preference. The order is 100 percent randomized for your pleasure. This is not a ranking.

Without further ado, the Lust List for 2014:

Lyla Everwett
Lyla's Twitter Account

Paige Reign
Paige's Twitter Account

Juicy Jazmynne
Jazmynne's Twitter Account

Minnie Mayhem
Minnie's Twitter Account

Olivia Jaide
Olivia's Twitter Account

Curvy Scarlette
Scarlette's Twitter Account

Sweet Cheeks
Sweet Cheeks Twitter Account

Jade Rose
Jade's Twitter Account

Lady Lynn
Lady Lynn's Twitter Account

Trinety G
Trinety's Twitter Account

Harley Ann
Harley Ann's Twitter Account

Erin Green
Erin's Twitter Account

Fine line between Flirting and Thirsting?

Social media has been a wonderful tool in the 21^st century. I’ve written before about the positives of the way that it allows fans of folks who work in the adult industry. It has been a boon.

One of the places I find myself struggling at times, though, is when it comes to compliments and innuendo. Again, a topic that I have espoused theories about in the past, so it’s slightly trodden ground.

But the place I am coming from today is the external perception that you can face from others if you go too far.

In other words, there is a fine line between flirty and thirsty.

What do I mean by thirsty? I mean being one of those guys who fawns too far over the women he’s trying to talk to in the industry, almost appearing to be begging for something that, quite frankly, you are not going to get.

I catch myself at times. Maybe it’s my own self-awareness being tuned too high. Maybe it’s because I feel I’ve crossed the line too often and have found myself sending DMs or emails or texts to make sure I didn’t push things.

And sometimes I find myself wondering if I managed to take a friendly-ish association with some of the performers I’ve grown close-ish with and crossed over the line where I’ve become one of those dudes that they resent.

Obviously I play things off with an “LOL” or a “j/k”. But I do find myself wondering if constant references and jokes can have a wearing thin effect.

Look, I do things like the “Lust List” and I obviously write reviews (when I have time) and watch and buy whatever porn and scenes I can when I can afford to. And I like to think I am flirting (poorly) without the expectation of anything actually happening with the women I am communicating with.

Then again, maybe the neurotic part of me is overthinking this and I really am okay.

Either way, I might need to start pulling back on the flirting before I get called thirsty.