The BBW Pornucopia Interview: Bella Bendz



It's time for another BBW Pornucopia interview. This time, we're going to talk to the lovely, the sultry Bella Bendz. Winner of the 2013 BBW FanFest Plumper of the Year, this sexy brunette never fails to draw my attention when she's on screen. I just had to learn a bit more about her. 

Bella Bendz
Temecula, CA

www.BellaBendz.com
Follow her on Twitter: @bellabendzxxx

 

How did you get into the business? What led you into doing this, and what was your entry point (print modeling, straight into video, web modeling)?

 

I got started in the industry by pushing my limits each and every time I posed for the camera. I started out by just having my cousin take a few pictures of me dressed up, which she posted online. Photographers began asking her how to get in contact with me so they could work with me for their portfolios. Each time I just stepped a little bit closer to the adult entertainment field. Going from beauty shots to fashion to lingerie to implied nudes to full nudes and eventually porn. I continue to do that to this day. I like pushing my limits and seeing just how far I am willing to let myself go.

Was it a difficult decision, deciding the enter the industry? Do you have any regrets about choosing this path?

 

When I was asked to do a shoot with another model (which was my entry into the industry) I really didn't think twice about it. It just seemed natural. I felt completely at ease. I haven't had any regrets so far. I think that's what makes it so much fun for me to do this. I'm proud of everything that I've done even if it wasn't that good only because it helps me improve on my performance!
 

If you could change one thing about the industry (either overall, or specifically with regards to the BBW side of things), what would it be?

 

The thing I would change is the judgment between performers. Mainstream performers, Fetish performers, BBW performers, TS performers, Gay performers. We are all in this same field of work, we just cater to different audiences within it. I'm extremely open minded to what people do and I tend to be a little bothered by the lack of support from across the board. How can anyone say that anyone else is less substantial than another just because they aren't doing the same thing they do? Hopefully that makes sense.
 

What is your definition of a fan? What obligations do fans have in supporting performers/the industry overall?

 

To me a fan is someone that supports you in all that you do. If you choose to try something new they are there to support you even if it's not particularly their favorite thing. I don't think it's an obligation for a fan to purchase all of your work but I do feel that it is an obligation of a fan not to steal your work. I like when fans let me know when someone is posting my stuff for free so that I can take care of it. If only more people were that honest.
 

If you could offer some words of advice to those trying to break into the industry, what would they be?

 

Attitude is everything. Well in my opinion it is. Being rude is not the best way to get work. Networking and leaving a good impression upon people is going to get you far (well I hope lol I'm still trying to make a name for myself). Also don't expect others to do the work for you. Research companies. Ask people for advice. Not everyone is willing to help you but there just might be a few that are. People always ask me if I can get them into porn. The answer is no. I am not an agent. However I can tell you how I got into working with companies as it's the only way I know how to help you.

Interpret this question how you want, but what excites you? What makes you feel good inside?

 

Things that excite me and make me feel good inside. Hmmmm there is always one question that you have to think about lol. Really it's the little things that excite me. An old cartoon that I haven't seen since I was a little girl, moments with my friends that only we will ever understand, when a stranger gives me a genuine compliment. Simple pleasures are what get me.

 

Now if you mean in sexual terms it would have to be warm breath on my neck, a gentle caress over my ass to my lower back, then a firm hand grabbing my neck and squeezing ever so gently as lips press against mine. Oh the chills I get thinking about it!!! What a thrill!
 

What are your hobbies outside of work? How do you like to unwind?

 

My hobbies outside of work are simple. I love to camp and fish. It's so relaxing to go out and cast your line and get some sun while reading a good book. My family and I love to do at least semi annual camping trips where it's just us, beer and the outdoors lol. Such a good time.
 

Where do you see yourself in 3-5 years? Still performing? Serving as a producer/director? Being an agent? Advocacy? Or outside of the industry?

 

In 3-5 years I would like to still be performing but I would also like to be behind the scenes. I have a passion for makeup and would love to start doing makeup on set. I think it would be fun to be behind the camera for once!
 

How would you like to be remembered?

I would like to be remembered as someone who always had fun with what they did. I don't want people to think I didn't enjoy what I've done. I don't think I could continue doing this if I didn't enjoy it!

The BBW Pornucopia Interview: Paige Reign

Photo courtesy of Paige Reign



There are a lot of lovely BBWs in Las Vegas, and this week we feature an interview with yet another one. You may have seen her bright red hair and her lovely boobs gracing your screens before, but let's learn a bit more about this recent newcomer. Introducing: Paige Reign.

Paige Reign

Las Vegas NV

Website: paigereignxxx.com

Follow her on Twitter: @paigereignxxx

 

How did you get into the business? What led you into doing this, and what was your entry point (print modeling, straight into video, web modeling)?

 

I am very sexual. I have always loved sex. My boyfriend (Jack Plowher) told me that I should get into it so that I can get paid for doing what I love. So I got some photos taken of me by a couple friends of mine in the biz. I then went to the 2012 AVNs and met Platinum Puzzy and she has been instrumental in me starting my careeer. She even helped me get my first shoot with Plumperpass. 

    

Was it a difficult decision, deciding the enter the industry? Do you have any regrets about choosing this path?

I am a very sexual person. so making the decision to get into this business was a very easy one for me to make, and have no regrets about getting into it. My only regret is that I haven't done as many scenes as I would like to have, but that's about to change soon. Soon I will be making a lot more work for my fans, and I'm excited.

 

If you could change one thing about the industry (either overall, or specifically with regards to the BBW side of things), what would it be? 

 

I would try to make everyone in the industry realize that we all do the same work no matter what type of porn we are doing, and that they need to be tolerant and accepting of all colleagues even if they do porn that they aren't into or agree with. BBWs deal with this more than most

What is your definition of a fan? What obligations do fans have in supporting performers/the industry overall?

A fan is someone that knows and follows your work, and that does NOT illegally download or pirate our work. When they do that they are stealing from us and everyone that works hard to make our scenes.  A true fan would not steal.

If you could offer some words of advice to those trying to break into the industry, what would they be?

To NEVER do any free or unpaid auditions for work.  No legitimate company will ask for an audition, and anyone that asks for one is just looking for a free fuck. They will also most likely be recording it to make money off you later.

 

Interpret this question how you want, but what excites you? What makes you feel good inside?

 

I'm a very sexual person like i said. I'm WILD, but also love the one on one time I get to spend with my boyfriend. I love gangbangs, bukkake, trains. I'm bi. I love sucking cock and eating pussy. I want to do DP and DV, I love anal if the guy isn't too big, and knows what he's doing. (Yes there is a wrong way to do anal.)  I LOVE cum, and creampies (if the guy(s) are clean and have RECENT tests proving so).  I love being with multiple partners and love having an audience. I can't wait to start doing gangbang and bukkake scenes

 

What are your hobbies outside of work? How do you like to unwind?

 

Currently I am enrolled in school so I haven't had a lot of time for shoots or hobbies, but I love hot tubs, watching movies, and of course a good fuck.   Oh and I'm also a GAMER. I love playing video games.

 

Where do you see yourself in 3-5 years? Still performing? Serving as a producer/director? Being an agent? Advocacy? Or outside of the industry?

 

I hope I'm still performing and that my fans will still want to see me then. I would also like to try producing.
 

How would you like to be remembered?

 

I hope that years from now that people will look back at my work and be able to tell that I really enjoyed doing it. You can always tell if a woman in a scene is just going through the motions and doesn't want to be there.  That can take away from the scene.

The BBW Pornucopia Interview: Teedra Diora



One of the things I enjoy about living in Las Vegas is that it seems to have become something of a hub of activity in the BBW community. From the old Las Vegas Bash to the new BBW FanFest holding down the fort in July, plus other events scattered throughout the calendar, there is a lot of exciting times going down here in Las Vegas.

This week's interview is with another lovely performer who lives here in Sin City, holding it down. It's Ms. Teedra Diora. I came across her work a few years ago, and while I have still yet to cross paths with her in person, I look forward to the day when I do get to meet this lovely lady face to face.

So let's spend a few minutes getting to know her, and learning about what she has in store for the future.

Teedra Diora

Las Vegas, NV
Website: www.teedradiora.com (Coming April 2013)
Follow her on Twitter: @TeedraDiora
 
How did you get into the business? What led you into doing this, and what was your entry point (print modeling, straight into video, web modeling)?

Just like the old saying, “Curiosity killed the cat.” I’m kinda like one of those people. I’ve always had a strong sexual appetite, I love porn and was curious about the industry. I started to do research online and found sites like www.sexyjobs.com where I could post a profile. White Ghetto Films was the first company to contact me. My first scene was b/b/g in Curry Creampie 9.

Was it a difficult decision, deciding the enter the industry? Do you have any regrets about choosing this path?

 

I don’t know if I would say difficult but there are definitely important factors that I had to take in to consideration. However, I don’t regret it. If I knew then what I know now I would have entered the industry sooner.

If you could change one thing about the industry (either overall, or specifically with regards to the BBW side of things), what would it be?

 

I was totally surprised to see how much division there is in the industry overall. I thought in the industry of sex everyone would be getting along having a good damn time. I can’t change everyone’s attitude or mindset but I can do my part by not creating or entertaining the drama.

What is your definition of a fan? What obligations do fans have in supporting performers/the industry overall?

 

A true fan supports your work and comes out to events if they’re able to. I could sit here and say real fans shouldn’t go on tube sites but that’s not realistic. I’m sure there are fans who support the work and still go on tube sites as well. In my opinion the only thing fans are obligated to do is to respect us as people and our boundaries/personal space.

If you could offer some words of advice to those trying to break into the industry, what would they be?

“All that glitters is not gold.” I would tell them they need to be realistic because the industry isn’t as glamorous as it looks on the outside. You have to treat it as a business and be selective with those you do business with. Have aspirations in the industry as well as outside the industry. SAVE your money because the industry is an up and down roller coaster all the time.

Interpret this question how you want, but what excites you? What makes you feel good inside?

That I can share my passion on film for men and women to lust for. Every woman wants to be the object of someone’s desire.

What are your hobbies outside of work? How do you like to unwind? 

I’d say I’m pretty normal. I like to spend my time with friends and family; go to dinner, have some drinks, see a movie.

Where do you see yourself in 3-5 years? Still performing? Serving as a producer/director? Being an agent? Advocacy? Or outside of the industry?

 

I’ll still be performing along with producing and directing. I’m currently working on my website now and July of 2012 I released my first independent DVD, Self-Exploited Slut Vol.1. I’m actually setting monthly goals now so that it won’t have to take 3 to 5 years to get where I want to be. 

How would you like to be remembered?

 

As that woman who remained the same and made the industry work for her, and not the other way around. I’m very pleased with the reputation that I’ve earned with those who I’ve worked with so far. If I ever start to become that person no one wants to be around I hope no one would hesitate to inform me that I’m turning into a Bitch!

The BBW Pornucopia Interview: Eliza Allure

 

She was the featured scene post last week here on BBW Pornucopia, and now I am happy to present her interview this week. I spent some time talking to her this weekend at a birthday event at a club in Las Vegas, and she is, as someone else dubbed her that night, "A firecracker." Or maybe it was, "A spitfire." Either term is applicable in my opinion.

I've already waxed poetic about her look before, so let me just repeat something I wrote on Twitter a couple of weeks ago:

My god. Redheads will be the death of me someday.
— Jayson Dean (@jaysonfdean) January 26, 2013

Without further ado, meet Eliza Allure.

Eliza Allure

Website: www.elizaallure.com (coming soon)

Follow her on Twitter: @elizaallure

 

How did you get into the business? What led you into doing this, and what was your entry point (print modeling, straight into video, web modeling)?

I’ve always been very confident about myself regardless of my size, but I never considered modeling. My past career experience was mostly working as a call center agent. I was sick of working long weeks to maintain a mundane life. I began taking pictures of myself and tweeting them. I started gaining followers, and some very sweet and proactive fans sent my pictures to Sensational Modeling. After getting an email from them I thought it was fake so discarded it lol. But still the thought that I might be able to be an adult model stuck with me. So I began researching bbw models and the companies they shoot for.

After seeing some of the models and what men enjoyed about them I felt confident I could succeed in the industry. I contacted Sensational Modeling and just my luck they were still interested in me J So a few weeks later they flew me to Miami to shoot for their site plumperpass.com.

After that I started my southern-charms and clipsforsale sites, as well as webcaming on justbbwcam.com.

Then Hardten Entertainment a great webmastering company took notice of me. J My official site is in the works now.

Was it a difficult decision, deciding the enter the industry? Do you have any regrets about choosing this path?

 

Absolutely not. I didn’t get into the industry like a lot of girls do for the quick paycheck. I plan on having a long iconic and hopefully inspirational career.

 

If you could change one thing about the industry (either overall, or specifically with regards to the BBW side of things), what would it be?

 

I wish more women would be empowered by the industry rather than just letting themselves be taken advantage of. Yes it takes more work and effort than just showing up for scenes, but the payoff of doing your own content will last years. You have to be a business minded person in order to succeed.

What is your definition of a fan? What obligations do fans have in supporting performers/the industry overall?

 

This is a very touchy subject. Fans think girls get rich off their porn like they did 10-15 years ago. Its just not that way anymore. Most girls are able to pay their bills and have a comfy life, but we still need fans to help us out and donate or send us stuff from our wishlists :P.

 

There are fans who understand this and definitely feel a responsibility to support the girls they watch, but then there are “fans” who want everything for free. Sometimes I feel like these guys don’t realize we are real people with real lives. We were not manufactured for their pleasure.

 

My favorite fans retweet and promote me as much as possible even if that’s all they can do. They do their part in advancing my career. I love to thank these fans with free photo sets, video clips and fan signs.
 

If you could offer some words of advice to those trying to break into the industry, what would they be?

 

I guess I kind of answered this already, but be intelligent. Don’t be blinded by the first check waved in front of you. And don’t give everything away the first shoot you get. Make sure they have a reason to call you back for another shoot.

 

Make sure you make a good impression, by not being a diva. That doesn’t mean if you are uncomfortable with something you shouldn’t stand up for yourself. Just watch for the line and don’t cross it. There needs to be a mutual respect for producers and pornstars. It’s very easy to get a bad name in the industry. Ive seen it before and you don’t want to be blacklisted because you were having a bad day and snapped at the wrong people.

 

Also, The best advice I can give you is never, ever, ever gossip about other industry people. Its tacky and makes you look like you are in high school. Everyone in the industry talks to each other and if you don’t think anything you said will get back to them… it will.

Interpret this question how you want, but what excites you? What makes you feel good inside?

 

I love women! Thick women, thin women any lady with a gorgeous face makes me crazy. I find the female form the most arousing thing in the world. In fact, I only watch lesbian porn ;P
 

I really love when a guy knows how to kiss. It’s so rare even in the industry to have compatibly lol, but the best kissers can make me wet so fast!

What are your hobbies outside of work? How do you like to unwind?

 

I like to relax with video games. I was obessed with WoW (World of Warcraft) for years. I finally had to cut myself off when I was playing 16 hours a day and neglecting everything else lol. So, now I stick to games I can pry myself away from. I enjoy Diablo 3 and skyrim the most. I prefer mages or wizards. I like kicking ass from far away. Let the big tank get hit lol J

Where do you see yourself in 3-5 years? Still performing? Serving as a producer/director? Being an agent? Advocacy? Or outside of the industry?

 

Hopefully by then I will have established a name for myself. I am young enough now that I plan on having a 15 year career easily.
 

How would you like to be remembered?

Hopefully as the caring person I am. I truly want the best for every girl in the industry. There are no petty jealousies being harbored in my heart.

The BBW Pornucopia Interview: Glory Foxxx

 

 



Imagine my surprise one day when I logged into Twitter and happened to come across an active account for this tattooed beauty. Glory Foxxx has some distinctive body art, and was definitely one of my favorite BBW performers before she seemed to vanish. Retired. Gone in a flash, the method of disappearance that happens with lots of adult industry performers.

Well, it looks like that retirement is over, and as a recently released scene on Plumper Pass demonstrates, Glory Foxxx has returned to the game. This week, she took some time out to answer my burning questions.

 Glory Foxxx

Fort Walton Beach,  FL
Website: www.gloryfoxxxbbw.com (currently under construction)
Follow her on Twitter: @gloryfoxxx
 

How did you get into the business? What led you into doing this, and what was your entry point (print modeling, straight into video, web modeling)?
 

It all got started when I was discovered on myspace as my everyday self. Was asked if I was interested in doing some pics for a website. I did it and really liked it as well as got a great response from it. From there I went into doing films. As I did films I have done websites and print as well.

Was it a difficult decision, deciding the enter the industry? Do you have any regrets about choosing this path?

The decision was very easy for me. I'm naturally an exhibitionist/attention whore. For me it was a win/win; I got to be who I am and get paid for it.

If you could change one thing about the industry (either overall, or specifically with regards to the BBW side of things), what would it be?

The industry itself is fine to an extent. Maybe if models were paid a little bit more for what specific things they are doing; that would be great. If anything there should be more BBW films that worship BBWs not so much as degrade them. Films such as "Pigs in a Blanket" don't exactly show the beauty of BBW.

What is your definition of a fan? What obligations do fans have in supporting performers/the industry overall?

A fan is a person who admires and supports the artist's work. I feel without the fans there is no "us". I wouldn't have a career if I didn't have fans. The obligations fans have is to continue to show support—whether it's buying our work or just sending encouraging words. If you don't show support I cease to exist; simple as that. Directors and the such will not hire a model if there is no demand for her. If she's not getting work how can the fan continue to enjoy? See it's simple. It also helps when you leave comments when you can so the directors can see. or send the webmaster emails saying how much you like so and so.

 

However there are fans who take advantage of us starlettes. They ask for free things or steal our vids and pics and post them for other people to download for free. THAT IN NO WAY IS SHOWING SUPPORT!! DO YOU WORK FOR FREE??!!! WELL NEITHER DO WE!

 

As a model myself I have no problem handing out a free pic every now and then. But it is highly offensive when fans take advantage of us. They expect everything for nothing. Those are not fans! They are just assholes!

If you could offer some words of advice to those trying to break into the industry, what would they be?

Be kind and hustle as much as possible! I got to where I am because I hustled my ass off. I was always humble (not so much I let people walk all over me but just humble), was on time, as flexible as possible, kept my demands list very short, never intoxicated or under the influence of anything, and I left my drama and male partners at home! I always came prepared and always showed up. This is your job so treat it as such! Directors hate drama queens and flakes.

 

Trust me I am friends with a few and they love to talk shit about models who are unprofessional; and will not only never hire them again but they will tell other directors too not to hire them..and that will guarantee you a short career or if a career at all! I swear on my career; everyone talks!

Interpret this question how you want, but what excites you? What makes you feel good inside?

Knowing I fulfill fantasies. I turn guys on and I make them feel good. That excites me. I get excited knowing I am part of someones life. I have many fans tell me how they followed me for years. That excites me!

What are your hobbies outside of work? How do you like to unwind?

I love to go horse back riding. That is a huge stress reliever for me besides sex LOL. I ride a few times a week, and currently training in English Dressage. I ride Western when I am on trails. I love going to the beach too, and yes I wear bikinis! The smaller the better!! I like to throw back a few beers or whiskey and belt out some karaoke. I love museums (Yeah, I'm actually super smart!) and seeing historical landmarks. I also just love to chill out in bed and watch movies all day. I love to travel and try new food too! Last but not least I love yoga!

Where do you see yourself in 3-5 years? Still performing? Serving as a producer/director? Being an agent? Advocacy? Or outside of the industry?

I see myself as a brand..More than a performer, and maybe even a mentor to new models

How would you like to be remembered?

As a Gorgeous Bombshell Sex Goddess..I want to be remembered as a Legend!

The BBW Pornucopia Interview: Daphne Daniels

Photo provided by Daphne Daniels

We are featuring the one, the only Daphne Daniels as the BBW Pornucopia Interview. I am ashamed to admit it, but I did not get to chat much with Daphne one-on-one at BBW FanFest. It was totally my fault, and I sincerely apologize. But despite that legendary faux pas by moi, Daphne was kind enough to take my interview request and answer the questions I've been dying to get responses to.

Daphne Daniels
Los Angeles, CA
Website: www.DaphneDaniels.com
Follow her on Twitter: @DaphneDaniels

How did you get into the business? What led you into doing this, and what was your entry point (print modeling, straight into video, web modeling)?

I came straight into video as my start in the industry. In the past a few people approached me with the notion of doing adult modeling I always said no. Then in the summer of 2007 I got approached again and this time it made me really entertain the thought of doing adult modeling for some extra money. So, I answered an online ad, met up with the director that same day and the following week I performed in my first xxx scene.

Was it a difficult decision, deciding to enter the industry? Do you have any regrets about choosing this path? 

It wasn’t, no. It was pretty easy once I made my mind up that this was something I was going to do. I’m a sexual person, I mean I wouldn’t be doing anything that I haven’t already done so it was fairly easy. Regrets? No. But I will say that some of my personal relationships had become strained because of my decisions. Comes with the territory.

If you could change one thing about the industry (either overall, or specifically with regards to the BBW side of things) what would it be? 

Unfortunately, the industry is very biased against dark skinned African American women. It’s harder for us to get the same amount of work or shine as our counterparts even on the BBW side of things. I also noticed that the BBW side of the industry can be biased on size. You’re either too big, or not big enough. It’s ridiculous.

What is your definition of a fan? What obligations do fans have in supporting performers/the industry overall?

There can be different variations on the definition of a fan, the main one would just be anyone that enjoys and appreciates what we do in adult entertainment. Tube/pirate sites are taking a heavy toll on the industry. Fans have to understand that without their support and purchasing our products pretty soon there won’t be much of an industry left. This holds especially true for BBW products.

If you could offer some words of advice to those trying to break into the industry what would they be?

First make sure that this is something you really want to do, once your scene is out there it’s out there for good. Make sure you do your research on individuals/companies before working with them. Have a goal or plan in mind as to what you’re trying to accomplish/gain in the industry. Figure out what your boundaries are and stick to them until YOU are ready to do otherwise. People in the industry will constantly try to pressure you into shooting acts you necessarily may not be comfortable doing.

Everybody doesn’t automatically become “stars”maybe you will, maybe you won’t. The job is to have sex. NOT have sex to get the job don’t get tricked into “auditioning” for shoots. Try to take occasional breaks to get away and not burn yourself out. And that it’s an everyman for his self type of business.

 Interpret this question how you want, but what excites you? What makes you feel good inside?

New experiences, pushing boundaries, the dark sides of sexuality. Laughing, accomplishing goals, family/friends, great sex, and rocky road ice cream. J

What are your hobbies outside of work? How do you like to unwind? 

My new found hobby is pole dancing! I love pole dancing! To unwind I like to listen to music, dance, go out and do different activities. I like to play pool. (I’m not great at it, but I like it.) And I like reading.

Where do you see yourself in 3-5 years? Still performing? Serving as a producer/director? Being an agent? Advocacy? Or outside of the industry?

 I can see 3 years still performing. 5 years or more? I take it as it goes I didn’t have a set time limit for when I’ll retire from performing. As long as fans like to watch me do nasty things and I enjoy doing them I’ll continue on until it’s my time to fade out. I produce and direct content for my site www.DaphneDaniels.com I couldn’t be an agent, too much drama to deal with. No advocacy, for same reasons of not being an agent.

How would you like to be remembered?  

As a nasty, classy, passionate, sexual beast on film. And that my light shined as a BBW of color in a genre that’s tough to stand out in.

The BBW Pornucopia Interview: Betty Blac

Photo by Mission Henrickson Photography

I first met Betty Blac when I went to BBW FanFest in July 2012. I talked to her about this wonderful seaweed based lubricant that she was helping to promote. She seemed like such a sensitive soul I was determined to learn more about her.

Then I saw her on Score.com and fell in lust. What can I say? I'm easy that way.

I've also come across some of her writing, and I knew I needed to get her thoughts down on paper. Or screen. Or whatever.



Betty Blac
Oakland, CA
Website: http://bettyblac.tumblr.com/ and http://www.clips4sale.com/55571 (for now)
Follow her on Twitter: @bettyblac1

How did you get into the business? What led you into doing this, and what was your entry point (print modeling, straight into video, web modeling)?

 

I had been toying with the idea of posing for erotic art or performing in porn for many years. When I first started watching porn I watched a lot of locally produced indie queer porn or female focused/directed porn. So I saw many examples of women being sexual but still empowered. It appealed to my feminist side but also my exhibitionist erotic side.

 

So after years of toying with the idea I put up a profile on ModelMayhem.com. I did one local shoot for a boudoir photographer before deciding to work with the Score Group. I was nervous about working with a mainstream company, but I was excited about working with a company that has such a good reputation and a level of class. And ultimately it ended up being a good experience.

Was it a difficult decision, deciding the enter the industry? Do you have any regrets about choosing this path?

 

I spent so many years thinking about doing porn that when I finally made the decision to do it it was easy.

 

Do I regret it. Regret is the wrong word for it. I am happy with my decision but sometimes the problems that arise out of it make me sad. I wish I was rolling in dough as so many people seem to think happens.

 

I also wish I could avoid the delicate challenge of when to tell any new person I am dating 1. that I have sex with men for money 2. that does not mean that I do not want to have a meaningful committed relationship 3. I am not a nympomaniac that wants to have sex all time or talk about it all time. So I guess I am saying I like being a porn performer, but I am new and still learning how to weather peoples assumptions about me with grace and figure out how to have a normal life despite my unconventional jobs.

If you could change one thing about the industry (either overall, or specifically with regards to the BBW side of things), what would it be?
 

I wish everything was move inclusive. Rather than having BBW porn I wish there were BBW actresses included in mainstream productions. I wouldn't mind seeing a mainstream film with a fully diverse cast in a non tokenizing way.
 

What is your definition of a fan? What obligations do fans have in supporting performers/the industry overall?

Hmm. For me fans are anyone who appreciates my work whether it be my porn or writing. I don't know if fans are really obligated to do anything. I am appreciative of anyone who is a fan. I also appreciate when fans support the work that I am in. Especially with how accessible things are on tube and torrent sites.
 

If you could offer some words of advice to those trying to break into the industry, what would they be?

 

Someone looking to break into the industry I definitely would encourage them to have a good community of sex positive friends. I definitely would encourage them to do some research on the companies they work with and know a little something about their costars. Also starting with camming helps you to get a familiarity with being on camera.

Interpret this question how you want, but what excites you? What makes you feel good inside?

 

I am excited by bright colors, dance, art, beautiful sunny warm days. amazing food, spending the whole day in bed with someone...

What are your hobbies outside of work? How do you like to unwind?

 

I write. I like to paint and do creative projects. I am working on some new hobbies. I would like to add filmmaker to that list at some point.

Where do you see yourself in 3-5 years? Still performing? Serving as a producer/director? Being an agent? Advocacy? Or outside of the industry?

 

In 3-5 years I would like to step back from performing and produce artistic porn.

How would you like to be remembered?

That's a hard question. It's not so important for me that I be famous but I would like to be remembered as a decent person. Someone who was nice to people and there for her friends. And also as a creative individual. I want to be remembered as a writer first performer second.

The BBW Pornucopia Interview: Kelly Shibari

I've featured her in a post before. Hell, the whole reason I initially decided to go to BBW FanFest was an opportunity to meet her in person.

Who better, then, to kick off this series with than Ms. Kelly Shibari.

She is whip-smart (pun kind of intended), smoking hot and is quite insightful from the conversations I've had with her in person and online. As I was pulling the idea of this series of interviews together, she was the first person I thought of having answer my questions, and she was more than willing to oblige.

Kelly Shibari

Los Angeles, CA

Websites: http://kellyshibarixxx.com, http://PaddedKINK.com

Follow her on Twitter: @kellyshibari 

How did you get into the business? What led you into doing this, and what was your entry point (print modeling, straight into video, web modeling)?

I got into porn a little differently than most. I had been working in mainstream film / tv as an Art Director / Production Designer for about 10 years when the big writers' strike hit the industry hard in 2007. Just about everything in Hollywood came to a standstill, and many people were out of work. Lots of people I knew ended up moving out of LA and back to their hometowns. At the same time, I had a pretty intense breakup with a guy that I had been living with for a few years. A friend of mine, who also worked in mainstream as a weapons specialist, suggested I get into porn. He and his girlfriend worked in adult as performers, and he thought I would do well.

My response was that there were no large women in porn, mainly because the porn I watched was mainstream porn - where the girls are slender and the men muscular. My friend showed me a few sites to show that there were indeed larger girls in porn. One of them was The Score Group, a large company that shoots busty girls as well as BBWs (Big Beautiful Women).

I told my friend that I would send in my photos, and if they accepted, I would do it. I really was initially intending for my time in porn as a short-term sabbatical as I waited for the mainstream film / tv industry to recover. It's now been six years ;)

Was it a difficult decision, deciding the enter the industry? Do you have any regrets about choosing this path?

 

Not at all. I had the luxury not "having" to get into the industry, and it was something I chose to do (rather than forced to do). I have no regrets at all.

 

If you could change one thing about the industry (either overall, or specifically with regards to the BBW side of things), what would it be?

It's something that unfortunately would be rather difficult to do, but I wish there was a more-established place where performers, whether new or established, could get information without bias - health, legal, financial, and more.

 

Right now we're a group that thrives on gossip and ego, and a lot of performers are misinformed, and left to learn on their own. The sad part is that so many of those lessons are exactly the same as every other performer...but there's no mentorship, no support system to prevent those repeated mistakes.

I love the idea of a central clearinghouse to provide performers with information that would be quite valuable to their livelihoods and their future. Why do you think such a thing has never come about before? Also, if you could create such a thing, would it be a brick-and-mortar place or a virtual clearinghouse that would be accessible 24hrs a day?

I doubt it will happen - mainly because we're a transient industry with a lot of turnover, and unfortunately most are more concerned about their own status than the wellbeing of others. It's terribly sad that this is a rather selfish industry where the competition is so fierce, that there really has left no space for collaboration amongst most performers. There's little mentorship in an industry where every performer feels threatened by other performers.

It's also an industry that doesn't thrive on group activities - whether due to the agoraphobic nature of most performers other than promotional appearances. or competition, I'm not sure. There are plenty of blogs out there that share information, but not really anything in the way of one-on-one mentorship, outside of talent agencies (and not all of them mentor), and I sadly don't see that changing anytime soon.

 

Thanks for answering that question. It is a shame that things are the way that they are vis-a-vis the "agoraphobia" that you mention. Although I don't get quite the sense of that up here in Vegas...but I'm also not that social myself, save for a random Porn Star Karaoke appearance. And I see that as a place where fans are invited to come and hang out and mingle with performers.

Speaking of fans, what is your definition of a fan? What obligations do fans have in supporting performers/the industry overall?

A fan is someone who appreciates the work of a performer, director, or anyone who creates entertainment for that fan. I think a fan's "obligation," if you could call it that, would be to actively support those people buy actually purchasing the content that is created.

 

I know that not everyone has the means to purchase content - but a true fan would, because not supporting an entertainer would create an environment where the entertainer couldn't support themselves with that line of work.

 

What's sad is when I read a "fan"'s post on social media wondering where a previously popular performer had gone, because I know that they were driven out of the industry because of the lack of work / lack of income. Not purchasing content is what causes companies to not be able to afford performers...and for some reason fans don't understand that they are directly responsible.

 

If you could offer some words of advice to those trying to break into the industry, what would they be?

 

In the current climate, the only thing I could suggest is that models treat this as a short-term hobby rather than a career. There is simply not enough work to support a career. Having an alternate income that doesn't depend on how many scenes you do per month guarantees a few things: that you won't be forced into a position where you might do scenes you wouldn't otherwise do because you need the work, and it creates enough of a diversion that, when you *do* get work, it's fun and exciting. That sort of stuff shows on camera.

 

Interpret this question how you want, but what excites you? What makes you feel good inside?

Knowing that people - men and women, couples and singles - enjoy my work, and that my work makes them more comfortable in their own skin by showing them that you don't have to be a size 0 to be happy. (Psst, secret: Many size 0's aren't happy either). Showing that sex can be fun and sometimes dorky makes me happy.

 

What are your hobbies outside of work? How do you like to unwind?

Many of my female friends are into "retail therapy" - they love shopping. I'm not much of a shopper, but I'm a "pamper junkie". I love spa treatments, massages, facial treatments, manicures, pedicures...I guess after entertaining people, I like it when people wait on me for a change .

 

Where do you see yourself in 3-5 years? Still performing? Serving as a producer/director? Being an agent? Advocacy? Or outside of the industry?

I'm not sure. I'm at an interesting place in my 'career' - where I can go in a couple of different directions. For the time being I'm still producing/directing PaddedKINK, and running the marketing company, which is currently nominated for Marketing Campaign of the Year for my self-produced DVD, Kelly Shibari is Overloaded (which is nominated by both AVN and XBIZ for Specialty Release of the Year). Some of my friends know that I had a 5-year plan when I got in...and I've met most of my goals. I've had some really great "ups" and some pretty crazy "lows" during my time here, and I've learned from all of those experiences (See my answer to (C)). I'm not interested in ever being an agent.

 

Advocacy is something that's organic for me, so I don't really see me getting involved with a group (unless I get a really good offer, haha). I do love marketing, whether it's my own projects/products or someone else's. I've been asked to consider making more DVDs. So...I'm not sure. But whatever direction I go in, I'm sure it'll be interesting...I guess it's time to think about my second 5-year plan.

 

How would you like to be remembered?

I'd like to be remembered not necessarily as a performer, but as someone who tried as many things as she could. My life has not always been about porn, and it may not be a few years from now. I've always been a "bucket list" kind of girl, an intelligent hedonist, who tries a lot of things before I'm too old to do them. Some decisions were mistakes, but learning and choosing to remember not to do that again is part of being an intelligent hedonist.

As far as my current work is concerned, though, I'd like to be remembered for reminding people that sex is fun, variety is amazing and that curiosity is what's sexy, as long as you're also grounded.